Propose Day marks second day of Valentine’s Week

KATHMANDU: The second day of Valentine’s Week, popularly known as Propose Day, is being observed today across Nepal and around the world, with couples and young people expressing their feelings of love and commitment.

On this day, individuals traditionally take the opportunity to propose to their partners, confess long-held emotions, or take relationships to the next level.

Flower shops, gift stores, and cafés in major cities including Kathmandu, Pokhara, and Biratnagar reported increased footfall, with red roses, chocolates, and personalized gifts remaining in high demand.

Many restaurants and coffee houses also introduced special Valentine-themed offers to attract young customers.

Sociologists note that Valentine’s Week, though a Western tradition, has gradually become part of urban youth culture in Nepal, symbolizing emotional openness and modern expressions of love.

However, they also emphasize the importance of mutual respect and consent in relationships.

Valentine’s Week will continue through Rose Day, Chocolate Day, Teddy Day, Promise Day, Hug Day, Kiss Day, and will conclude with Valentine’s Day on Feb 14.

Why Is Valentine’s Day Celebrated?

Valentine’s Day traces its origin to ancient Rome and is associated with Saint Valentine, a Christian martyr.

Saint Valentine and Roman History

During the 3rd century, Roman Emperor Claudius II believed that unmarried men made better soldiers, so he banned marriages for young men.

A priest named Valentine defied the emperor’s order and secretly performed weddings for couples in love.

When his actions were discovered, Valentine was arrested and executed on Feb 14.

His sacrifice later came to symbolize love, courage, and commitment, and he was honored as Saint Valentine by the Christian Church.

The Legend of the First Valentine Card

According to popular legend, while imprisoned, Valentine developed a friendship with the jailer’s daughter.

Before his execution, he allegedly sent her a note signed “From your Valentine,” a phrase still widely used today.

From Religious Observance to Love Celebration

By the 5th century, Pope Gelasius I officially declared February 14 as Saint Valentine’s Day.

Over time, especially during the Middle Ages in Europe, the day became linked with romance.

Writers like Geoffrey Chaucer helped popularize the idea of Valentine’s Day as a celebration of romantic love.

Modern Valentine’s Day

Today, Valentine’s Day is celebrated globally by exchanging:

• Flowers (especially red roses)

• Cards and love letters

• Chocolates and gifts

• Romantic messages and gestures

While its religious roots remain historical, the modern celebration focuses on expressing love, appreciation, and emotional connection—not only between couples but also among friends and family in some cultures.

Valentine’s Day in Nepal and Asia

In countries like Nepal, Valentine’s Day has grown mainly among urban youth, influenced by global culture and social media.

Though not a traditional festival, it has become a symbolic day for expressing feelings openly.